Coaching for Dads Separated from Their Children

Don’t just survive… thrive.

Collaborative coaching for dads who have lost contact with their children.

Sessions from £55. Six-session packages £295. The first call is free and confidential.

You’re not alone in this

Being a father who is separated from your children, for whatever reason, is one of the hardest things that can happen to a man. Losing contact can leave you feeling helpless, alone and stripped of your identity. The grief is real. So are the shame and the anger. And there is the silence, because this is something men are expected to get on with quietly.

I know because I’ve been there. I went through the family legal system myself: solicitors, sheriffs and the financial pressure that comes with it, on top of the emotional weight. What struck me was how little empathy or understanding there was for dads in that position, and how hard it can be just to have a relationship with your own kids.

My coaching comes from that lived experience. And from where you are today, there is hope.

Who helps with what happens inside you?

There are solicitors and mediators for the legal side. I help with the personal side: who you are right now, what you can control, and what your next step looks like from here.

Look after your own wellbeing, because that is what lets you be the best you can be for your child
Regain your power and build your confidence
Focus on your own needs and your right to be happy
Get practical tools for reconnecting with your kids and creating a positive future together

Coaching is not legal advice or therapy. I can’t tell you what to do about your case, and I won’t take sides.

You lead. I walk alongside you.

We use the GROW model: set clear Goals, get Real about where you are right now, explore your Options, and find the Will to act. The Wheel of Life shows where your time and energy are going and what to rebalance.

Sessions are confidential and completely free of judgement. They are available face to face in Scotland or online anywhere in the UK.

You’re still a dad.

Let’s figure out what that looks like from here. Not sure this is for you? Get in touch for an initial chat before booking anything.

ask@djlservicesltd.com · 07845 680854